Life, Relationship

Commitment & Tomorrow

Everyday, I make small new plans and I used to note them in my iphone. Sometimes it’s a memo and sometimes it’s just a note. Whatsoever, the life with plans never seems to end.

Sometimes I used to ask myself, what and where would I be in another decade. This is a very random question which all of us might be having in our brains, but, I know the answers maybe screwing your mind as it does mine. I was wondering about a way to find what will happen and what will not because at the end of the day, you should know what is the point of all these things?

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Life, Relationship
Disappointment

Life’s Little Disappointments

Disappointment is perhaps one of the most difficult things to deal with in life. Often, we look forward to something and are crushed when it does not happen according to our plans. Sometimes, we put faith in people, but they often disappoint us through their actions or attitudes. And, we often give much attention to things, but they sometimes break and leave us crushed. Disappointment in life is directly related to your expectations. When you want something, expect to have it, achieve it or experience it and it doesn’t become a reality, you feel let down, upset and/or disappointed. Why do people set themselves up for disappointment by creating mental expectations for some result that may be in the control of others: parents, a spouse, a company, a boss or a friend?

Bad luck? Bad Karma? Either way, disappointment….. Life’s Setback or Self’s Pity ?

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Relationship
Love and Friendship

Love and Friendship

Most of the love stories begin with friendship. Even though we find friends who stay the same for many years, very often we can hear a couple say, “We were friends at the beginning”. There is no much difference between love and friendship and that is the reason most of the friends fall in love with each other after a while. Even though we say opposite sex doesn’t count, it really affects in a friendship at the end of the day.

What does a friendship mean? Different people will define it in a lot of different ways, but, think for a while, what do we expect from a friend? To be there all the time, to do crazy stuff together, to try out different things together, be happy for each other’s decisions and many more. All these things are so close to your heart and that is why we start thinking that the friend is “my person”. I am not saying that all friendships turn into love, but, I am going to talk about love, which has started from a friendship.

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General, Personal, Relationship

Who is Mr. Right ?

Some people get to know it at once, while the others deal with many doubts to make sure whether he is the Mr. Right. But, in either way their hearts talk to them at some point.

I enjoy spending time alone, even though I depend on my surroundings at times. I want to be single. But, there are many times which I have thought about Mr. Right.

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